Gaia Chinniah from Soul33 has created her February – April relationships forecast. Image supplied.
Relationships are the most asked about topic in my line of work. Many ask if they are with the right person, if they will meet someone and when they will meet someone. While everyone’s relationship soul blueprint is unique, spiritually there are many factors that come into play when looking at someone’s relationship history and future. The information that I derive for relationship guidance is through my meditation practice, communication with my spirit guides and what I see happening with my clients during their one on one sessions. There are always themes that the Universe delivers for us to focus on, which I am very good at hearing and seeing.
Whether you are single or in a relationship there are supporting Universal energies which encourage a certain focus around your relationships. There are some key focus points over the coming months for you to consider if you are single, available or have a status of ‘it’s complicated’. When we work with the Universal energies, we can go with the flow rather than bringing about more resistance than necessary.
What you need to know
There is something to celebrate in terms of how far you have come! Have you stopped to pat yourself on the back? Being single has many perks and benefits, there are of course times when having a partner can provide you with security and joy, but you have made it this far yourself! The energy of reconnecting with yourself will be important during these months. Stop and look at what being single has taught you and encouraged you to do, that you may not have done if you were in a relationship. When someone is looking for a mate, the higher your vibration is in celebrating your own self-worth without much ego, the more you will help to attract someone to you. You will feel and look different as your radar goes out to another to see you. Enjoying your life and who you are without a significant other is showing the universe that you trust in yourself without needing to wait to celebrate. Celebrate yourself and make a list of all that you have done on your own.
What you need to do
Now that the energy has shifted into the New Year and you have spent some time focusing on your ‘self’ celebration, it’s time to test your faith! Testing your faith means that you have built yourself up to really know that someone will see you for who you are and gravitate towards you, and you at this time should act on that. If there has been someone you have been wanting to meet or to tell you like them, now might be the time! Or if you are ready to get out and date, join the apps, go out, and take a leap of faith! The energy is supporting you and it’s also Valentine’s Day on Feb 14th.
What you need to heal
Healing is a part of everyone’s journey, some will know what they need to heal and some may want to stay in denial about it, because healing can be painful but it deals with any traumas at the core level. There is something in your traumas with relationships prior that is coming to a completion, something that wants to be dealt with. This aspect will be different for everyone so it may require some thinking. What is something from a relationship that you have had that needs to be integrated to be able to move on with someone else? Relationship traumas are not exclusively with an ex-partner but may also be with a parent. Regardless, thinking about what this might be and helping yourself complete it is important as unhealed traumas tend to rise up and trigger us in future relationships to be addressed. Why not do this now before someone new has come into your life?
What you need to know
Interestingly, much like our single friends, couples are also being asked to look at what chapter needs to close, to be able to move forward in a relationship. Some couples have ongoing issues that rear their heads and cause a lot of frustration, resistance and perhaps even trust issues. For some it may be regular occurrences, and for others the issue that may have been thought to be dormant for many years has suddenly come up again! Try to have a non-judgmental look at what you want to complete and move on from and finally nip it in the bud. This is not about attack, but there is something you don’t want to live in fear about and now is the time to be aware of what this is.
What you need to do
Once you have identified what you want to complete and move on from, you now need to address it and figure out how to finally make positive changes. You may need to seek out support here but you also need to be courageous enough to speak about it with your partner, to discuss with and be open to hearing the others perspective. Some will struggle speaking as they feel like they are not heard and others may feel attacked. This is why you need to think about what is best and how best to communicate, the purpose of all this is to regenerate your relationship with more power and grace. You also may not even need to do anything for a change to happen, in some relationships just speaking your truth and moving on is enough.
What you need to heal
The healing aspect for couples is resisting change. What part of your relationship has needed a change? This need not be a big thing, it may be that you are wanting to move, or do something different. If there are any changes that need to be made, there is healing energy to support couples in addressing what you need to move on from and putting plans in place to ensure the changes are adhered to, sustainable and for the better.
Profile: Gaia is an internationally known healer, medium and spiritual coach. She founded Soul 33 a healing company and the modality of Soul Progression Therapy® when she had an awakening at the age of 33. She channels messages from spirit guides, uses energy healing and is able to speak to your soul and see your past lives. She sees your soul blueprint. She reminds you who you are in a very practical way. Gaia has a Masters in Management Studies, is a Reiki Master and has a qualification from Omega Institute New York in Past Life Regression Therapy. She has a product distribution company in Asia to fulfill her business desires and she lives her life wanting to be the best that she can be. She has created a spiritual guidance app and is the founder of Spiritual Health Magazine to help others understand the journey. Gaia provides FASHIONZ readers a bi-monthly to quarterly relationships forecast of how you can use the energy to plan, manifest and heal your life, particularly around relationships. For more on Gaia: www.soul33.com, Spiritual guidance app search ‘Soul33’ on your app stores.