Gaia Chinniah of Soul33
Relationships are the most asked-about topic in the line of work that I am in. Many ask if they are with the right person, if they will meet someone and when they will meet someone. While everyone’s relationship soul blueprint is unique, spiritually, there are many factors that come into play when looking at someone’s relationship history and future. The information that I derive for the relationship guidance is through my meditation practice, communication with my spirit guides, and what I see happening with my clients during their one-on-one sessions. There are always themes that the Universe delivers for us to focus on; I am good at hearing and seeing what they are.
Whether you are single or in a relationship, there are supporting Universal energies that encourage a certain focus around your relationships. Whether you are single, available or have a status of ‘it’s complicated’, there are some key focus over the coming months for you to consider. When we work with the Universal energies, we can go with the flow rather than bringing about more resistance than necessary.
Singles: what you need to know
Singles, you need to check in and ask if you are sabotaging yourself in some way and projecting an energy of not being available for another to come in? This can be a social time of the year, so ensure you know how you are feeling, not just thinking towards meeting someone special and entering into a romantic relationship. What you need to feel is how you truly feel about this topic in your heart. Are you feeling positive and open-hearted and receptive to a relationship entering your life?
You also need to be sure that your social groups and those you are surrounding yourself with are conducive to you meeting someone. Friendships and connections are great ways to meet people, you never know who they could introduce you to. You are being asked to be mindful of, and to know where you are putting yourself and your intentions when you go out – being aware of your heart, mind, and action alignment. You may need to extend out of your social group and say yes to other social scenes and opportunities that you normally wouldn’t say yes to. You will need to do a review of who you know and where you go. Put a loose strategy in place. Invite yourself to places and let people know to ask you if they go anywhere interesting. Saying YES more with openness and curiosity is important this season.
What you need to do
If you have been dating someone and it’s not going anywhere it might be, time to say something or step away. Any situations that are disappointing you require attention for your truth to be heard. The end of the year brings a natural review of the year that has been and that can mean either making a commitment or taking a change in direction. If you have invested yourself emotionally and your efforts are not giving you the result to move into the relationship status that you are wanting. It’s time to put it behind you and move on.
If your disappointment is in not having met any strong candidates for love, it’s time to change your scene and do something new to encourage new connections. The truth you speak may need to be to yourself and make a commitment to yourself to not be discouraged, and to keep open to possibility.
What you need to heal
Negative thoughts and mindset need to be healed at this time. Your mind is powerful and can manifest what you think into a reality. Your fears are being called to attention. This is a good thing because you can identify what they are and heal them completely or at least focus on healing the layer that requires it at this time. Factually analysing the reality of fears and evaluating those that are false and that can be worked on and released. Write affirmations of truths you wish to manifest that are opposite to the fears; see a counsellor or a healer to assist you in finding the source and transmute it. The goal and positive outcome of healing these fears is that you are able to see how far you have come and you are aware and realise that love comes when your heart is open when the opportunity arises and to continue to hold the faith that it will happen because you know how loveable you are and how much you have to offer in a romantic partnership.
Couples: What you need to know
Do not be afraid to enjoy and splurge this season. What you need to know is how much can you release the leash so to speak, to enjoy and pamper yourselves at this time. Treat your relationship to re-energise it based on your means and time. You are being asked to indulge each other; speak to your partner about what you need to know to organise something special for you both.
What you need to do
What you need to do is change some patterns in the relationship and do some things together that you do not normally do. Any feelings of feeling stuck or bored need to be addressed with change and action. Speak to your partner, tuning into what each other’s needs are. Then seek out and support activities you can both do, with you leading the way to facilitate freshness and change together.
What you need to heal
All relationships require healing that has long-lasting effects. Check if you are holding onto any judgement of previous experiences, words, disagreements, or letdowns from the year. At this time of year, relationships tend to come together or show signs of areas that require healing. There is a significant change needing to happen and your review as a couple to learn from these past experiences will help you transition into the new year together. Talk over feelings and how you can support each other’s healing going forward. A purge of these feelings will help you both move forward. You may also want to assist yourself in releasing your own contribution to any judgement in the relationship – how hard are you on yourself? Ensure you make changes, release what no longer serves you both, and commit to moving forward together with some newness incorporated into your relationship for its long-term health.
Gaia is an internationally known healer, medium and spiritual coach. She founded Soul 33 a healing company and the modality of Soul Progression Therapy ® when she had an awakening at the age of 33. She channels messages from spirit guides, uses energy healing, and is able to speak to your soul and see your past lives. She sees your soul blueprint. She reminds you who you are in a very practical way. Gaia has a Masters in Management Studies, is a Reiki Master, and has a qualification from Omega Institute New York in Past Life Regression Therapy. She has a product distribution company in Asia to fulfil her business desires and she lives her life wanting to be the best that she can be. She has created a spiritual guidance app and is the founder of Spiritual Health Magazine to help others understand the journey. Each month Gaia will provide a monthly forecast of how you can use the energy to plan, manifest and heal your life.
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